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When you lose someone you love.... I was talking to my friend a few days ago about his mom. He said she wasn't doing to well, but I said well I will keep praying to the big guy that she gets better soon. A few days had passed and he let me know she had passed. It devastated me. I know where she is there is no more pain or no more suffering, but that doesn't make it any easier when we lose someone we love very much. .Bad's mom was an awesome woman. I remember her as one who always had a smile on her face no matter what. She was always there to make us smile or laugh when things were tough. I know for me I have never experienced losing a mother or a father yet but I lost someone who is very important to me last few years Sometime I don't quite understand that bit of life yet I know that was really hard for me, when losing someone you love where you never will see them 4eva. Somehow now, I'm thinking what happen to people who love if I'm not here anymore for them? Is it the same feeling that I felt before? hmmm.... I know they all saying losing someone you love is a process. Sometimes people tell you well at least you can be happy they are in a better place. You don't always want to hear that at the time of when that happens. You don't want to feel the guilt that they are gone and you are happy they are in a better place. But in time things do get better but it is always hard losing someone you love. You soon realise where they are there is no more suffering and no more pain. You can start to realise the good times and share them with others to keep there memory alive. I know when my love died, it was hard for me for a while, but then I came to realise also that ALLAH must wanted him there with him for some reason. It does take time to heal from a death, but we must rejoice because in death there is a spirit alive somewhere in heaven watching down on us and making sure we are ok.